Friday, January 25, 2008

Babes galore

In desperate need for a place to live, Slindile (18) with four month old Alwande and 22 month old Lusanda "Buki" moved in with me in late October. What an adventure it's been to deepen my relationship with Sli, to to journey with her through raising two young babies. It has been a journey of joy and struggle: being waken many nights to crying babies, watching a growing Buki eat phenomenal amounts of food and grow in his understanding of language (Zulu and some English), being thrilled by little Alwande's first smiles, and helping Sli get the supplies and helps she needs to get back to school.

Back in late October, after her fiance's continued infidenlity, Slindile, whose mother passed away when she was 12 and whose grandmother has been missing for almost two years, had no place to go. She and her three younger siblings have been like family to me for the past four years, so inviting her to move in was the most natural option for her. Sli and her two babies moved into my house with me, and I've been supporting them ever since. After being out of school for two years with her babies, Sli is enrolled again, attending grade 9. Plans are currently underway for her to move into a place of her own, and continue her studies.

Additionally, Slindile's 10 year old sister moved in with us for a month back in November after sexual abuse at the unregistered orphanage where she was staying. Her younger sister, and two younger cousins were all moved by social workers to a place of safety, and will be soon placed in a family at SOS Childrens Villages.

Slindile hopes to be reunited with her grandmother, and get a place of her own so that one day she can again care for her three younger 'siblings'. If you are interested in helping to fund Slindile to get a place of her own (buy the land, put up a simple house), please let me know. It will cost between $1500 and $2500 to get her set up in new digs, an amount of priceless value in supporting an orphan and potentially her younger siblings as well.